Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Realist and idealist

To love more than once, at about the same time, is a sign of uncertainty.Only those who want to be loved as much as they love would understand the numbing pain that comes along amidst the confusion. Because of the naivety of Trust.

People seem to be attracted to that which fulfil their needs. They may fall for more than one person at almost the same time, but never the same amount of feelings. To keep one another in the dark only heightens the thrill of the forbidden fruit, thus prolonging the unpleasant confrontation with reality — Choice.

After the procrastination, guilt creeps up with a heavy tug in the heart. The difficulty of the evaluation will depend on the emotional investments made in the parties involved. Therein lies the difference between the realist and the idealist.

The realist will take a reality check. Worldly obligations and whatnot.

The idealist will follow through their dreams. The true matters of the heart.

Not all relationships are founded upon pure chemistry, especially from brilliant compatibility.
Many are founded upon gratitude.

The realist will eventually…let go. Go with the flow of the dominant current they’re in. Society binds them in. They awake to ringing wake-up calls idealists prefer to shut out. They awake from their dreams. They feel the need to heed to Time’s command.

The idealist will find it hard to let go. Because they want to fight against the current. Take a risk. Carpe diem/noctum. They see what they can gain is more than worth the loss. The calculated risk is merely…their happiness.

Between two lovers, the realist will go with the safest bet.

Between two lovers, the idealist will go to the one closest to their hearts.

Realists dread regrets, when the stakes are high.

Idealists dread regrets, when they might not live up to themselves.

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